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This means they run very well, but emotion, sensitivity, and sensuality can sometimes get stuck in the levers. “I think German people are very, very nice, I don’t think anything they do is intended to be hurtful or mean…They don’t have a filter to hold back.” While they can dish it, they often can’t take it (so apologies if you are a German man reading this), maybe because the modern German cannot be “bad” like their ancestors.
Hayley, 25, came to Germany after college in Florida for a new experience. For example, one of Haley’s dates told her he didn’t like a certain color on her. “They hate criticism.” And if you make a Nazi joke, they might take it hard. They’re not known for their sense of humor and flirtation skills, so don’t expect banter to flow too easily.
“My ex [German] boyfriend liked it but didn’t need it.” Sex, like many of life’s activities, should ideally be scheduled. They’re just not a sexual type of people.” You could look like a knockout at a club, and German men may not turn their heads, but it’s not because you’re not beautiful. Not a date or anything, but when I hang out with Americans, it’s amazing.” On the upside, you don’t have to deal with catcalls.
On the other, they could make you feel like a nympho.
Like many newcomers, she was enchanted by the type of man who may have justified Hitler’s racist categorization of Germans as the superior race (yes, that was a Holocaust joke). But unlike Hitler’s Germans, these men are nice, polite, liberal, open-minded and seem to treat women with utmost respect, as equals (although perhaps too equal).
She soon realized that dating German men may be easy on the eyes, but not always on the heart.
Or maybe it’s because German spas are co-ed nudist spas, so they become immune to the bare breast (then again, what comes first, chicken or egg…).
I hope the readers, my German friends and colleagues will not take this article too seriously and take no offence but have a good laugh whilst reading my “sociological analysis” about the difficulties of dating a German man and its consequences!
Hayley Alexis has been blogging about Germany ever since she landed in Munich from the US about two years ago.
Her You Tube videos about life in Munich have garnered a sizeable following, particularly those about romance in Deutschland.
As in any relationship between two human beings love is beautiful but complicated.
Until I moved to Germany, I was convinced that love has a common language, no matter which language(s) you speak.