My friend is dating a whore

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When you break it off with someone, sometimes you’re just fed up.

“The majority of the time, it's all about me not wanting to waste another second of my time worrying about someone else’s feelings,” she said.

“That’s what I spent the first 23 years of my life doing.” Cate added that when she’s ghosted or feels like someone is trying to start that forced conversation, she moves on because she sees it as wholly unnecessary.

Tons of guys wonder all the time why they’re being ghosted, wanting to chalk it up to flaky girls or girls who don’t care.

If a guy gave you a mix CD of Radiohead songs because it felt like giving you "a pint of his own blood," and then he gave girl a pint of his own blood, it sort of cheapens the gesture. More and more people I know prefer dating a bunch of people to one; you can be suspended in a kind of single-but-not animation that used to be reserved for old bachelors of indeterminate sexual orientation, and not be considered a jerky health risk.

I'd been with my boyfriend for six beautiful months of makeouts and I was never going to love again. Going out with somebody else the next day would therefore be cheating, a cruel thing to do to your boyfriend on the all-important 24-hour anniversary. A lot of my friends, male and female, followed this kind of "Medieval Courtly Love, With Blowjobs" model well into college, like knights and ladies with bitterly divorced parents.

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While I feel for my friend Sean, it’s so much more beneficial for men (and women) to just take ghosting for what it is: subtracting the bullshit.

At least they didn’t make you sit through a lecture on your shortcomings—or, worse, theirs.

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