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Now I’m not claiming any rights on this theory, I’m pretty sure it has been around for many years in various forms, but just thought it’d be useful to put it out there again for any of you that may need reminding of it. My version is not to get confused with that of the author John Gray, who in his book, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus states; “Men are like rubber bands.When they pull away they can stretch only so far before they come springing back.” My version proposes that you use the Rubber Band theory to get your other half to come to you rather than a means of getting away from them.It can be applied in a number of scenarios and situations.It is predominantly used when beginning a potential relationship with someone that you really like but who does not seem to be reciprocating the affection.
The same thing happens when he begins chasing you, wanting you and dating you.
In healthy relationships, men do not pull away out of anger or frustration about their relationship. " When a woman reacts to the rubber band by chasing, it can cause a man to pull away even more -- perhaps stretching until the rubber band breaks.
If your partner is pulling away out of anger, or is simply avoiding you, there is likely something else going on. " These painful thoughts often cause women to chase their partner with demands for an explanation. He may feel pressured because his partner doesn't trust him, or he may even feel that he is incapable of making her happy.
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