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To be honest I enjoy it, they enjoy it, who's getting hurt? I lost my virginity to a guy I barely knew and it was a horrific experience. Saying that I don't like being bottom at all so it was never going to be fun in the first place. There is a lot of casual sex out there but that doesn't mean that there aren't just as many decent potential boyfriends.If you feel safe with this guy then go for it but, in my experience, it's not all it's cracked up to be. The thing I hate about being gay is the fact I don't fancy "gay" gays and so it's really hard for me to have a proper relationship as I never end up finding anyone. If you can get a bit without any commitment or emotional nonsense then .. There is a lot of casual sex out there but that doesn't mean that there aren't just as many decent potential boyfriends. I use many internet websites (not just the seedy ones like Gaydar) and go to various gay scenes in different cities and it's all the same. Almost every gay relationship I hear of involves some form of cheating after a couple of months or has an "open" status from the start. But I have had plenty of sexual experiences - first with my ex, and, sicne he and I broke up, I've met plenty of guys online and had ... so surely it makes sense to do it with someone who is experienced rather than wait and wait and embarass myself with someone I care about? It'll be safe, it'll be fun, it's legal, and it means I'll know what I'm doing when I have another bf. And if you do and you do embarrass yourself, both you and him will forget anyway. If it's safe and you know and trust the guy then having sex with him doesn't make you a "slut". And I don't want my first time to be a horrible experience that I'd rather forget ... You'll have it some time, it'll be great, you might as well. Even if you wait for it to be special, most likely a few years down the line you won't be with the same guy. That's my policy Deep down, you know what you want to do... but I have a feeling that that's not what you want.
But still, all my dates seem to come from the internet.I look at the straight people I went to school with who are my age, see half of them married and have one or two kids and try to think of a gay couple of my age or younger in a serious relationship and I can't.I've nothing against random sex, I've done certain things myself and don't regret it, but this seems to be all that goes on.The thing I hate about being gay is the fact I don't fancy "gay" gays and so it's really hard for me to have a proper relationship as I never end up finding anyone. If you can get a bit without any commitment or emotional nonsense then .. Sure, there are some nice guys out there who want a meaningful monogamous relationship, but they're no use to me if they're hiding away in places where I'm never going to meet them.I only meet gays through the internet, scene or LGBT society and they really aren't the types I wish to be dating.